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The Gas Chamber

Tuesday, November 10, 2009 By Sherra

Continuing my tribute to our military this week…

This is for those who have been interested in what they actually have to do in Basic Combat Training (BCT).

If you don’t already know this and many people don’t – the new Soldiers go through 18 specific requirements in order to graduate. I won’t list all 18 but in addition to the grueling physical fitness tests, here are just some things they must successfully complete:

  • Rifle Marksmanship
  • M16A2 Qualification
  • Live Fire Exercise
  • Hand Grenade Qualification
  • Night Infiltration Course
  • Long Distance Foot Marches in full battle gear

The exercise that seemed to create the most stress for our darling twins (and many others!), even before they left is formally referred to as the “NBC Confidence Chamber.” I wish NBC stood for watching the whole thing on NBC television but it actually stands for nuclear, biological, and chemical.

This website has a good description:

“The gas chamber is a room that has a controlled concentration of CS (orto-chlorobenzylidene-malononitrile) gas, more commonly known as tear gas. Tear gas is the active ingredient in Mace™ and used for self defense and for riot control by the police. Tear gas is an irritant; specifically, it irritates mucous membranes in the eyes, nose, mouth and lungs, causing tearing, sneezing, coughing, etc.”

When we got their letters this past summer and I shared my relief that they both got through “The Gas Chamber” so many people had questions that I asked Rachel if I could just reprint her letter home right here.

Bonus – you all get a picture of their platoon preparing to enter and at the end, a picture of some of them exiting and one of Rachel too.

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Mom & Dad,

I almost forgot to tell you about the most recent accomplishment! We conquered the gas chamber. It sucked sooo bad. I think it sucked worse for me though. I was in the first group with Lizzie, Kirk and Campfield. The lady came and checked all of our masks to make sure there was a tight seal. Me and Campfield got approved, but Lizzie and Kirk needed more adjustment so they had to be in a different group.

Two minutes later Campfield & I were being herded into the chamber. It was a big, dark cement room. There were 4 drill sergeants walking around to help. The minute I entered my eyes started burning and watering and my throat was burning and so was my skin. It was also harder to breathe. I also began to snot, which was not very pleasant. I quickly came to the conclusion that my mask was not properly sealed.

At first, I remained calm. Deep breaths, well sort of, actually I was trying to breathe as little as possible. I raised my hands and stomped my feed. (One reason I knew my mask wasn’t sealed was because Campfield was just standing there breathing fine while I was panicking.)

When the drill sergeant came over I told him my mask wasn’t sealed. He cleared it once, and I told him it still wasn’t good. He waved his hand and said I should be fine…oh, ok, I will just sit and suffer until it’s my turn to say my name & info.

I stood there for like 2 of the longest minutes of my life with like a 2 foot string of snot hanging out of my nose. (I feel bad for the next person who would have to use my gas mask.) I could barely open my eyes after that. When it was my turn to say my name, rank and Social. I lifted my mask and got my name and rank out and coughed my Social. I had already been exposed to the gas, so I could barely talk while everyone else could.

I then put my mask down and cleared it (even though that did nothing) and waited for everyone else to finish. After everyone was done, we lined up at the door and took off our masks to say the Soldier’s Creed. By that point I was about to run out, but after about 30 seconds they finally let us out.

AIR!

I didn’t throw up though I wanted to, I just gagged, snotted and tried to open my eyes.

Overall, it was a great experience. I’m glad to have that under my belt. I will try to write again soon. Maybe I will get to call.

Love,
Rachel

She’s a wry, funny kid in case you can’t tell.

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And along with her darling twin, they are both braver than I will ever be.

Next time your teen complains about being bored or how horrible it is to live at home with all your silly rules…suggest military service.

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Full Disclosure: Regarding yesterday’s post, for anyone who does not get our very dry, deadpan humor…Rachel aka Roger Leroy did not and does not have gonorrhea nor did she ever have a testicle (removed or otherwise).

Filed Under: Finding the Funny, Life Lessons, Teens

Flexible Friday #47 I Am That Parent

Friday, November 6, 2009 By Sherra

If you have read my blog from the beginning you probably know a few things about me like…

I have issues
Parenting wears me out
Parenting teenagers has still not driven me to drink

And if I ever do decide to take up drinking, you would also know that I would never drink and drive.

I actually made that life decision long before I became a drunk driving statistic and a severe head injury survivor.

The irony of me being the designated driver for friends who drank in high school and college and then me being hit by a drunk driver doesn’t escape me.

I vividly remember that Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) campaign at the time of our crash was “Don’t call me lucky” which is a slogan I have worn out over the years. Being hit head-on by a drunk driver, living through it and having your life turned upside down is not lucky.

Don’t get me wrong – I am blessed and grateful for my recovery and I have a good life.

It has always seemed incredibly selfish to me to put other people’s lives at risk because of your bad choices. (Not to mention putting your own life at risk.)

MADDpopMADD has a new campaign that I am happy to tell you about because I do believe that the “Power of Parents” is worth blogging about. If you have teenagers, the message of choices and of making the choice and commitment to not drink and drive is worth talking about.

Take their quiz or watch their video to help you get started with this important season of parenting.

The Power of Parents campaign with the tagline “It’s your influence” is an important reminder for all of us to remember we can really make a difference with our teenagers. It is our job to do our best to influence them to make good decisions.

I am a nut about driving safety as I’ve shared here before and this is certainly part of that whole process.

Remember…

I am that parent.

I hope you will be that parent too.

Full disclaimer: I wrote this review while participating in a blog campaign by Mom Central on behalf of MADD. A donation was made to MADD in my name to thank me for taking the time to participate.

Just so you know…the donation is lovely but I would have written this without it. 🙂

Have a fabulous and safe weekend!

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Filed Under: Life Lessons, Milestones, Random Thoughts, Teens

Holy Cow – Home AGAIN?!

Wednesday, September 2, 2009 By Sherra

Yes, that’s right.

They came home again.

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In their tiny, shiny little elf shoes.

That hurt their feet and are too small but they would never dare complain or ask for the right size because the only authority they ever challenge is mine.

So with blisters and in their required ASU (Army Service Uniforms) they blessed us with their presence.

On Saturday.

For a whirlwind visit.

To do this.

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Because she can’t text at school.*

And this.

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Because she can’t use Facebook at school.*

*Not true. They can do both at school!

And to pick up their basketball shoes, a few pairs of shorts and t-shirts and head back to campus.

We did go to lunch and enjoy folded ear pasta.

Then they pet their dogs, hugged Scary Baby and said goodbye. Then Sabu jumped in their car and tried to ride drive back with them.

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Did I mention that last week this is the email I received from Roger Leroy?

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Note the subject line.

Because luckily I was just sitting around at home hoping I could help her.

Isn’t she precious?

The paper was on poetry which created a little bit of healthy stress for her.

I know my role here.

And luckily, she and I both know it’s not help with math.

Side note: We are actually looking forward to them coming home for the Labor Day holiday weekend.

See you soon, darling twins!

Life Lesson (LL): Parents of high school students – here’s my best tip: tour colleges about 3-5 hours driving distance from home.

Share a Life Lesson (SALL): Any good tips on how to keep them on campus and using their meal plan?

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Filed Under: Finding the Funny, Life Lessons, Teens

A Decade of Shining Moments

Wednesday, April 22, 2009 By Sherra

Retail value of 5 shirts and 1 pair of sweatpants at JCPenney

$135.94

Price we paid because I kept telling Scary Baby the only rack she was allowed to choose from was the one that said “Final Clearance $3.97”

$25.25

Note on my bed with tags and receipts after PhilBillPaul and I got home from the FREE movie…

Priceless

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Disclaimer: Scanned note has been altered to use her blog code name. 😉 She does not sign her notes “Scary Baby” or “Scary” for short. I just loved that she signed it twice otherwise we wouldn’t have known who it was from.

I didn’t check her math until I was writing this, so for you math lovers out there who already know what I’m about to say…because when you see numbers, your mind is like a calculator and you added it up as you read it and know that…she’s off by $45 bucks. Which should be added to our total and brings our grand total savings to $155.19 if we had paid full retail!

Shining Moment #1

Teaching your kids how to find the sale racks, bargain shop and save money is worth the time investment. In today’s instant gratification world, it’s good to show them how to watch and wait for something to go on sale. And it doubles as a great real life, fun math review!

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Shining Moment #2

Scary Baby is now officially in the home stretch of her first decade here on earth.

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Here she is wearing one of her bargain shirts in honor of her birthday and Earth Day.

I can hardly believe that it was 10 years ago today that I brought that giant last baby home.

Happy Birthday monkey!

You have always shined and made our family brighter.

We all love you as big as the whole world.

Life Lesson (LL): Bargain shopping can be fun and does count as math review!

Share a Life Lesson (SALL): What are some ways you are saving money in these hard times?

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P.S. Happy Birthday to my *oldest* friend Kerri! and Happy 18th Birthday to Rebecca 🙂

Filed Under: Finding the Funny, Life Lessons, Tweens

New Soldier Etiquette

Tuesday, March 3, 2009 By Sherra

When you hear someone you know who has a family member who has joined the military, here are some great tips I’ve learned through personal experience:

  • If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything.
  • Keep your personal fears or dislikes to yourself
  • No one is pro-war.

The absolute best and most gracious thing you can say to any parent with a son or daughter in the military is this…

“You must be very proud. Please tell {insert name} thank you for me.”

Because we should all be grateful that we still have young people who are willing and able fight to protect our freedom here in the United States of America.

Here are a couple of brand new soldiers with whom you can practice using the line above…

We are incredibly proud of our darling twin daughters’ decision to join the Army National Guard.

There you have it…that’s our BIG news!

Roger Leroy had her swearing in ceremony last Thursday. Wizzy had her swearing in ceremony yesterday.

This was an intense and personal decision for our daughters. I knew I was already facing a new season of parenting as we count down to their senior graduation in May. I know many of you are about to or have already faced the emotional time of sending one or more of your children off to college.

It’s the culmination of the job we’ve been working at for 17 or 18 years and truly, my goal has always been to get them to leave our home and become adults.

Mothers of twins are in the unique position to have double the joy mixed with a little sadness as we encourage them to make their own decisions and plan for their future.

Now, as they face this new road ahead of them, it is also a very bittersweet time for me as a mom.

I promise to give more details soon but for now, please feel free to help us celebrate their BIG decision! Roger Leroy and Wizzy do read the blog so I know they’ll love to read any happy comments!

Life Lesson (LL): Surround yourself with people who support you and your family.

Share a Life Lesson (SALL): Share a difficult time you’ve had that was made better when someone made that extra effort to be kind and loving…

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