Scary Baby Needs a Blog
(not a dance)

Since I revealed the BIG news yesterday about life at the Humpfreeze house, I can move on to other events happening on *normal* days. Not to be upstaged by those twin sisters of hers, Scary Baby had an honor bestowed upon her last week at school.

In spite of or because of being in our family – we’re still not sure – she is a voracious reader and also loves to write. Language Arts a.k.a. English is her favorite subject. She’s been writing stories for as long as we can remember.

This year, in 4th grade, she submitted her story for the Young Georgia Authors Competition and…

She won at her school!

Her submission now goes on to the county competition.

It dawns on me as I write this, that maybe I should set her up with a blog. It might just keep her busy and cut down on the whining. Hmm…I’ll think about that one.

I have her permission to reprint her story here. Such a generous artist she is.

Always There

Once upon a time, near a small town in Arizona, a girl, no more than nine, walked on the sandy, barren ground. The sun was beating down on her face, sweat dripped from her forehead like rain. it looked as though the terrible desert would never come to an end. Somehow, by her facial expressions, it looked as though she was enjoying herself. She was tired and hungry and had walked for miles. Eventually she saw something in the distance, she did not have the energy to run so she walked toward it. As she walked, she felt a bit uneasy, for she did not know what this mysterious thing was, yet she kept going. It turned out to be nothing but a coffee shop. She opened the door, as a bell rang, she slowly slid herself inside. She quickly found herself a table, wondering if she was supposed to be there.

An old man walked up and said, “May I help you?” The girl said she needed to find her parents. The old man said he could most likely track them down. He asked for the girl’s name, she did not know how to answer. Finally she said that she did not have one. The man was astonished. Nobody knew who she was or how she became, she was just there. She walked out of the shop, a little confused herself.

It actually turned out that she didn’t have parents, she was literally a nobody. Some people like to think of her as a ghost, other people say she was always there.

Hard to believe this lovely child has so much creativity in her, isn’t it?

She’s all dressed up for the Wacky Tacky dance in 4th grade.

Remind me, please…

How many of you had dances in the 4th grade?

This was the final dance of the school year. In an elementary school housing over 1,000 children in grades kindergarten through 5th grade.

Do we seriously need dances at this age?

I’m an *old* parent of a 4th grader but when I was a *younger* parent with the first three lovelies, I’m glad to say I didn’t even have to worry about the elementary school dances…they were in a private Christian school…

with no dancing allowed.

We’ve been at both ends of the educational spectrum.

I must say I prefer the very conservative end of that spectrum.

Who knew I would some day be glad to say I am old-fashioned?

Don’t even get me started on the over-the-top homecomings and proms in high school. With gowns, limos, fancy dinners, photographers, etc., I wonder what they’ll do for their wedding. Okay, I’ll stop for now.

Leave a comment and tell me about your opinion on dances in the school years.

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New Soldier Etiquette

When you hear someone you know who has a family member who has joined the military, here are some great tips I’ve learned through personal experience:

  • If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything.
  • Keep your personal fears or dislikes to yourself
  • No one is pro-war.

The absolute best and most gracious thing you can say to any parent with a son or daughter in the military is this…

“You must be very proud. Please tell {insert name} thank you for me.”

Because we should all be grateful that we still have young people who are willing and able fight to protect our freedom here in the United States of America.

Here are a couple of brand new soldiers with whom you can practice using the line above…

We are incredibly proud of our darling twin daughters’ decision to join the Army National Guard.

There you have it…that’s our BIG news!

Roger Leroy had her swearing in ceremony last Thursday. Wizzy had her swearing in ceremony yesterday.

This was an intense and personal decision for our daughters. I knew I was already facing a new season of parenting as we count down to their senior graduation in May. I know many of you are about to or have already faced the emotional time of sending one or more of your children off to college.

It’s the culmination of the job we’ve been working at for 17 or 18 years and truly, my goal has always been to get them to leave our home and become adults.

Mothers of twins are in the unique position to have double the joy mixed with a little sadness as we encourage them to make their own decisions and plan for their future.

Now, as they face this new road ahead of them, it is also a very bittersweet time for me as a mom.

I promise to give more details soon but for now, please feel free to help us celebrate their BIG decision! Roger Leroy and Wizzy do read the blog so I know they’ll love to read any happy comments!

Life Lesson (LL): Surround yourself with people who support you and your family.

Share a Life Lesson (SALL): Share a difficult time you’ve had that was made better when someone made that extra effort to be kind and loving…

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Unhealthy Relationship

Last week I discovered, among other things I will get around to telling you later, that I have an unhealthy relationship with…

my laptop.

My little Mac iBook G4 was not working last week. On top of other stresses, I really needed my laptop to work.

I found myself yelling at my laptop. Which I know is not healthy or productive.

Or smart.

You may remember that I mentioned this on Friday

…along with my record-setting Xanax week.

Sidenote: Thank you for the emails and phone calls of concern. I’m currently drug-free and hope to stay that way this week.

Anyway, back to my laptop.

Mr. Handy a.k.a. PhilBillPaul said he would try to fix it but life kept getting in the way even though he did send The Grunter to get a new part for it at the computer place.

I got a little impatient and on Friday afternoon I decided to take matters into my own hands.

Which is really very scary because I am not handy.

Thank goodness Roger Leroy helped by going to this amazing website and printing the directions plus this handy dandy guide to keep track of everything I removed…

And replace this…

And now my laptop and I have made up and we’re getting along better than ever.

Stay tuned, I might just get wild and post our BIG news tomorrow which is Tuesday and I never post on Tuesday.

I’m not purposely keeping anyone in suspense, I promise.

Until then, email me if you need your dc-in board on your laptop repaired.

I’m totally qualified.

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